Monday, October 26, 2009

Friendship, Love, Lust, Looks and Life....looking for answers...A Journey !!



Its so strange how at times when i just let my mind wander, I get a few of the best questions, answers, thoughts, hallucinations and resonance that i can ever get in a normal day of life. At times I feel that loneliness and dejection brings out the best in me. Off late I have been feeling just like a free observer of the world around me. Just observing the world with and magnifying glass and not at all getting affected by it or its happenings. Pondering on creatures of species same as me, i get all my answers and also new questions. Like, the amazing topic of attraction. What is it that binds two people? What is it that makes someone to work with themselves and change or manipulate to attract the other creature. Is it just material interest and lust, or is it something else as well. If there's more to it then what's that. What's love for an example? When is it that we come to a conclusion that we love someone? and when is that we feel connected with someone? Our parents give their lives away to make ours better (I know that exceptions are there even in this, i am talking of majority here.) but still its so easy to say when we grow up that it was their duty and they did it for themselves. Which to an extent is true! Similarly, friendship is so over-rated at times. We come across all kinds of people in our lives but the one who are our best friends and ones we fall in love with are the people who suite our needs, fit our expectations and have qualities we like. Isn't this exactly the same thing we do when we go for shopping or buying something for us? As in, when we are about to get married, we look for a girl/boy according to our preferences and look for certain parameters to be fulfilled, and that's exactly what we do when we are buying something for ourselves. So, what's the big difference? Also, sex is a integral part of all love relationships, without physical intimacy no love relationship or marriage survives. And for sure this aspect is a true form of animal nature mingled up in our genes and D.N.A. So, how do we differentiate and love selflessly? I am still thinking, you also go ahead with it and post your views on this. Will come up with some answers very soon hopefully and a few new questions. Till then guys, enjoy Love :)

29 comments:

  1. I like what you're saying. People looking and searching for that much coveted personal connect. There don't seem to be many real connections out there that're worth writing home about...!

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  2. Thanks Mate. Thats exactly the observations i had, this provoked me to write it. I am looking into this kind of over-rated stuff around us and trying to get answers.

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  3. attraction and relationship are the two different faces of love.whenever we go outside we feel atraction but it doesnt mean that we loves some one.
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    cynthia
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  4. Author is free observer of love. it differentiates nature of love or marriage .his thinking is realistic.it define different parameters of love..
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    david
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  5. Its nice, here the author is saying about the relationship. According to the author there are two faces of love, attraction and relationship, sometime people fell in attraction but it does not mean that they love someone.
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  6. I like the way by which you have express your feelings.These are realistic and heart-rending.but we are waiting for more so keep it up.
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  7. nice quote..author is saying about relationship.This site is very interesting.
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    kevin
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  8. This site is very intresting because here author tells us about relationship. without love relationship is nothing.
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  9. I like what writer saying...people looking and searching for good relationship,but they don't know, which type of relationship they actually want..a very good example taken by the writer about love.love is not only that we like someone,love is all about our friendship, likings, regard, tenderness, warmth, sexual passion, deep affection, fondness and many more thing.
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  10. It is a very interesting article. Author has expressed his thoughts regarding relationship. It is true that without love,relationship is nothing.
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    Roger
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  11. This is a good blog. The writter is seeing the whole world with his own glasses.The thinking power of the writter is amazing.
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  12. attraction and relationship is the two different face of love but some people take it in a wrong sense.
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    meenu
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  13. Its good. Author has expressed his thoughts regarding relationship.
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  14. Iti s nice, here the author is saying about the relationship. According to the author there are two faces of love, attraction and relationship, sometime people fell in attraction but it does not mean that they love someone.
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    roger
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  15. brilliant,it is such a great and appreciative post, i like his thoughts, and i am waiting for his new poems.
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    priyank
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  16. this site is very nice because here author express that love is not for sometime. it is forever.
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    savita
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  17. Wow!!it is avery nice blog.the thinking power of writter is high when he is all alone.He sees the world from different angle.
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  18. Wow!! it is very nice. it is true that without love, relationship is nothing.
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    roger
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  19. The writter's imagination is so nice,he is a person who wants to live whole life with relations.
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  20. Wow!! it is very nice. it is true that without love, relationship is nothing.
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  21. very nice thought process of the wirter and very genuine speech, i like him for his honesty and diversity of knowledge.
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  22. i like the thought and way of the author how he express our relationship towards love and friendship.its true that without friendship there is no love.
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  23. hi your opinion about love,lust n marriage is totally different with mine.
    one should find sum time for d ones u think are special in your life.give them importance,show them that u care.....or else one day you'll find only time but not d special ones
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  24. Hi, Very nice and educative article. Thanks.
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  25. Super thoughts. I agreee with the author.

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  29. Its mind awakening & great
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